Taking Youthful Desires Away

 You Tube Video Link for Board of Education

Me Quitaron La Gana

La Preciousa Hija me Dijo

Me Quitaron La Gana

They took away my desire

Me Quitaron La Gana

She had the opportunity I only desired and could not attain.

Me Quitaron La Gana

She was the upcoming artist and musician.

Me Quitaron La Gana

She played the violin in middle school.

Me Quitaron La Gana

She thrived in art in middle school too.

Me Quitaron La Gana

Her room was an artists room.

Me Quitaron La Gana

She even painted the rugs, botched paint to clean her brushes.

Me Quitaron La Gana

Many colors of violins and music keyboards.

Me Quitaron La Gana

I enjoyed the joyful expressions.

Me Quitaron La Gana

She had all I dreamed of.

Me Quitaron La Gana

Stripped away was La Gana

Me Quitaron La Gana

All the jubilee in middle school was now gone.

Me Quitaron La Gana

It was in a High School art classroom.

Me Quitaron La Gana

Sexually assaulted on school/zoo/gang grounds.

Me Quitaron La Gana

The mandated reporter never reported to us.

Me Quitaron La Gana

She stopped going to Art class, never to return.

Me Quitaron La Gana

The teachers said nothing, administrators said nothing, as she accumulated over 40 absences in one class. Mandated reporters you say, state law.

Me Quitaron La Gana

She did not have the desire to paint again, music was fading too.

Me Quitaron La Gana

She expressed desires to end it all, a parent’s worse nightmare.

Me Quitaron La Gana

She planned the hotel room and gun, didn’t want to make a mess at home.

Me Quitaron La Gana

Thankfully, it presents she got over that hurdle, but Le Quitaron La Gana

It was gone, the desire to be an artist and musician, all in a high school art classroom.

In the university now, and with talent and opportunity.

Me Quitaron La Gana

Color guard and the opportunity to succeed much more than I did or had, a delight for a parent.

Le Quitaron La Gana

He said, “you cannot protect me dad ……. I have to protect myself in school” while in High School.

Le Quitaron La Gana

Even in high school, he had the desires to succeed, to get good grades, to please his parents.

Le Quitaron La Gana

Joy was when he came with the report card, “Look what I did”. Awesome. Continuous Joy.

Le Quitaron La Gana

This is the same high school that Le Quitaron La Gana for my daughter.

Le Quitaron La Gana

The crap hit the fan this year, the yearly and monthly, and daily struggles to get him help. Finally, it happened.

Le Quitaron La Gana

They took away his Gana too.

Le Quitaron La Gana

In the first few days of school, he gave up, he checked out.

Le Quitaron La Gana

The failing school. Schools in the district pass and meet state standards, but not this one.

Le Quitaron La Gana

Overall, the school system is a failing one.

Le Quitaron La Gana

A parent pleas and screams for help, help my son. But

Le Quitaron La Gana

He checked out already, was doneso, over, no more.

Le Quitaron La Gana

The same son whom took pride in his work, loved school, and now, high school Le Quitaron La Gana.

Drop outs do not form overnight, it is a combination of teacher and administrators failure and actions.

Le Quitaron La Gana

Here, the same reports are received, or similar ones.

Le Quitaron La Gana

Over 22 tardies to one class, hum, oh nooooo I said, Le Quitaron La Gana.

They did it, they snuffed out the light. The changed the level from mild to moderate, to now severe.

Le Quitaron La Gana

He started down the road to dropping out.

Le Quitaron La Gana

I suffered a mental health break down, seeing that Le Quitaron La Gana.

The awards days, the joy in his eyes (Awanas and Graduation). Gone.

Le Quitaron La Gana

I am at a bad place myself, seeing and knowing what they did and are doing to my children.

Le Quitaron La Gana

The zoo, gangland, trust unwarranted. She said, “Look at our test scores … we are exceeding”.

Le Quitaron La Gana

Fights, vaping, drug use, kids roaming on campus, that is what is being reported.

Le Quitaron La Gana

That is how Le Quitaron La Gana.

It is not “smoking in the boys room …… it is shooting up and fighting and doing everything else in the school, not just boys room”

My son now faces a life threatening condition in part because Le Quitaron La Gana. A parent’s worse night mare is the loss of life. That is what we face because Le Quitaron La Gana

Open Letter to Josh and Roy

 

614 Gaslight Trail

Wendell, NC 27591

8/11/2024

Biological Son: rolavarria012013@gmail.com

Ministry Email: universal@reyoadvocacy.org

Son Cellular and Ministry Line: 984-218-2873

Son Home Number: 919-400-8046

Patient Cellular: 919-219-5852

To: Open Letter to Josh Stein

Open Letter to Roy Cooper

Re: AnMaOl

Not So Tough On Crime; Actually Soft On Crime and Unresponsive to Reports

Laying aside all the politics and professed stances, are you human? Do you have a duty to protect and report and act?

Greetings:

The people elected the Attorney General and Governor to be responsive to them, to help stop wakemedkills. But, here is the thing, no response received. Wakemedkills. If they did this to my mother, how many others were assaulted, wakemedkills. This is not red and blue, wakemedkills. This is stopping the killing of our mothers, sons, daughters and loved ones, wakemedkills.

Over the past ten years, I wrote and faxed these two politicians, wakemedkills. I wrote them while trying to help others, wakemedkills. It became typical to never receive a response, wakemedkills. George Floyd and others, wakemedkills. Killings that could have been stopped, if only someone responded to that letter, complaint, fax, wakemedkills.

Here are the two softies, whom claim they are tough on crime, and good for North Carolina, but, wakemedkills. How many more will die before you both do something, wakemedkills ?

The representation was, Invega is safe for use, meanwhile my mom suffers intolerable pain, wakemedkills. Her liver was finished off without a liver level blood check. It was a neighbor whom shared his thoughts, “He went to the hospital and the psychiatric doctors all said he needed psychotropic ….. meanwhile, it was meningitis” wakemedkills. The person survived his homicide attempt, they went for a second opinion, the person is now alive and will, why be soft on crime [is this also happening everywhere and at other hosptials?].

Wakemedkills is about reaching out for help to our Attorney General and Governor, let them know another crime is being committed, but, they continue to allow wakemedkills to kill. Soft on crime is an understatement.

This open letter to these two elected officials is a documenting of the failure to even call, write, visit or respond while a mother is in the midst of pain dying.

This is a personal perspective but also advocacy. What is your duty? Or are you just a politician. The last I know you both are licensed to practice law in this state, aside from your officials duties. The last I know you are charged to act and react and enforce North Carolina laws. The last I know you both are mandated reporters.

I do not care about the politics, I care about those that possibly face(d) the same criminal acts. I care about the sons, daughters, children, husbands, wives, and loved ones whom got injured or possibly died, due to wakemedkills.

Do you ever response to reports of criminal acts? Do you ever response to reports of injury? Do you ever stop wakemedkills?

No concentration on being soft on crime, but the concentration is around the question, are you human?

It seems like the North Carolina thing to do and its modus operandi is just do not answer the pleas for help. Do not answer the son calling to help his mom as she suffers brutal assaults on a handicapped, wakemedkills.

Josh, are you human? Do you feel? Roy, are you human? Do you feel? Can you stop wakemedicalkills.org ?

Please help and intervene in this situation. At least respond. Say something, do something. My mom may pass due to continued medical malpractice. Thank you. Please add this to any complaints and correspondence you already received. Thank you. WWW.WAKEMEDKILLS.COM AND WWW.WAKEMEDICALKILLS.ORG, and social media like X, Facebook, You tube, and the internet have published materials and chronology of these criminal acts.

In my quasi individual as a son and minister combined capacity. Years of advocacy now have a deeply personal conviction and component. It hits home sirs. I am a minister. I am a son.

I write to you as a son first. I write to you as a minister second when I ponder and think about the hundreds if not thousands of other possible victims. I write to you just to ask, do you ever respond back? Are you Human? Do you have a duty and mandate to act? That is well beyond the politics and “position statements” I read and see. What would you do if it happened to your mom or dad or loved one?

Sincerely,

Reinaldo Olavarria, MA, Political Science; BA Sociology; Elder/Advocate.

Stop Wake County Blacklisting Ellis and Warren

 Three links to advocate for the ending of blacklisting in NC, the move towards open and competitive hiring, and just overall end of discrimination towards the disabled and Hispanics in Wake County.

https://www.reyoadvocacy.com/2023/11/team-wake-and-nc-rebuttal.html and https://www.reyoadvocacy.com/2023/11/an-example-of-discrimination-toward.html and https://www.reyoadvocacy.com/2023/11/a-call-to-end-black-listing-and.html

Wake County Commissioners Public Comment

Wake County Com Public Comment 

Wake and Durham Baby Snatcher

 The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Here they come with the Safety Assessment

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

They say, sign here, or we will take your child.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

They are Durham, Chattam, and Wake County Child Protective Services workers with a vengeance.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

They are not human; a husband and wife can never argue, say the CPS worker that lives in different reality. 

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Yes, I hit my spouse, but I fell accidentally, my spouse did not push me down the stairs, I started it. 

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

It was an accident, your paperwork says the child was never hurt or in danger of injury, I just fell, and the child was not where around with a friend.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Then, the government says, end all baby snatching, use the CFT (Child and Family Team) process, that is the US ACF standard and mandate.  

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

https://www.psy0-18.be/images/SOC_Brief2010.pdf

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/documents/cb/im2102.pdf

https://www.acf.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/documents/cb/im1805.pdf

In the US, the Administration for Child and Family Services, says, partner with others in the community, but you say, o thou baby snatcher, hell no.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Can a husband and wife argue in the US and avoid having their child removed?  Not so, and more so if you live an in impoverished community. 

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

The officer said to the CPS worker, “if you were to come after me and my wife argued, you might see the same”.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

The child was not harmed in any way, and, no hostility towards the child, but you say, sign here so we can take your child.  Your paperwork says the child was never harmed. 

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Can I suffer a Postpartum episode without the possibility of having my child taken away?  No

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Can I suffer a mental health episode without my child being taken away?  No

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Someone starts a shoving match, and then accidentally falls, is that domestic violence?

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

The response is, CPS, we are here to take your child, sign here, the person whom did not start the fight, just defended themselves, that person must go.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Aggressive people tend to have aggressive histories, they slash tires, smash auto windows, break furniture, smash TV’s, cut sofas, break coffee tables, and add sugar to gas tanks, etc..

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

But the CPS worker says, I was scared to enter their home, look at everything the perpetrator broke, but, we really need to remove the physically non-aggressive one.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Parents through a CFT meeting, develop a good plan with many options, but, the CPS agency says, away with that plan, sign her so we can take your child.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

They used four hours of their work day to sit outside my home and wait, instead of making referrals for me, finding me a place, paying for food and rent, etc..  Is a PI and a CPS worker the same person?

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Can a person with a mental illness be a parent, or, should they all be sterilized and placed in some sort of institution?  CPS says not, you cannot parent, we are plotting to take your child.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

You, spouse, leave the home, and, pay for new housing and to house the other parent and child.  However, CPS will pay nothing, during a housing crisis, in the midst of a recession, they ask you to become homeless and not use any of all the billions of dollars the US allots to agencies, CPS, for family preservation and services. They will not look for a place for spouse and child.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

The man is always to blame, while, I went to homes, conducted assessments, and wrote reports in favor of a male parent that was being abused by a female parent.  

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

And now, the agency, CPS continues to refuse to have any CFT, although more than 6 requests were made for such, even from a local church/advocate. 

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Who is the baby snatcher here; Cannon, Harris, Whitfield, and M Cveticanin?  The DSS worker, supervisor, program manager, and director.  

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

You accused me, and failed, I won in court.  

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

You have no clue about disability rights because you do not hire the disabled. 

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

You tried to involve yourself in a civil custody case, and, you did not even know how to read and interpret policy, case closed and left alone. 

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

The judge was a former county attorney, a pissed judge, because I gave the kids back to families, I dared to defy her/them.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

Christian and Sasser are part of the baby snatchers, and they do try to exact revenge at each opportunity.  Yes, I was the GAL, Sasser, and you submitted recommendations against me.  I was the county attorney, a child died, Christian, and you (ReyO) wrote reports contradicting me, so, we got you.  Christian is my friend, and I will accuse you to defend her, and violate state law in the process, does SASSER.

The Baby Snatchers are Coming to Get my Child

All that I ask for is that you use the CFT process and stop threatening parents with taking their child away unjustly. 

The Baby Snatchers are in Wake County and Durham Counties knocking at your door wanting you to surrender your child. 

Stop I say tho Baby Snatcher.

An Amendment to End Government Shutdowns

Whoever, owing allegiance to the United States, levies war against them or adheres to their enemies, giving them aid and comfort within the United States or elsewhere, is guilty of treason and shall suffer death, or shall be imprisoned not less than five years and fined under this title but not less than $10,000; and shall be incapable of holding any office under the United States.

(June 25, 1948, ch. 645, 62 Stat. 807; Pub. L. 103–322, title XXXIII, § 330016(2)(J), Sept. 13, 1994, 108 Stat. 2148.)

I submit, what both parties are doing, is an act of treason against the United States. At minimum, it is destroying our government.

What to do then? I would, the people should, US citizens should, vote on a referendum to combat this treason, as defined as “shutting down the government”.

(5) the term “domestic terrorism” means activities that—

(A) involve acts dangerous to human life that are a violation of the criminal laws of the United States or of any State;

(B) appear to be intended—

(i) to intimidate or coerce a civilian population;

(ii) to influence the policy of a government by intimidation or coercion; or

(iii) to affect the conduct of a government by mass destruction, assassination, or kidnapping; and

100. occur primarily within the territorial jurisdiction of the United States; and

https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/18/2331

Question: Is the civilian population intimidated? Yes

Question: Is the government shut down intended to influence the policy of a government by intimidation or coercion? Yes; it is treason against US.

I think the acts of Democrats and Republicans both constitute acts against US citizens and acts to influence or coerce our policies and the very foundations of our government. More than just federal employees are in danger of life and liberty.

What to do then? US citizens should propose a measure to ensure this does not happen again. If you engage in a government shut down, you need not be eligible to run for office ever again. What to do? Treat them like kids, all elected officials. Sequester them all. Place them in a room until they work it out. No phones. No internet. No twitter. No Facebook. No TV. Just all of them in a room until they work it out. No going out to dinner. No ability to conduct your personal business. Since we cannot conduct our personal business due to the legislative idiots, then, they need not have the right to just go about as if nothing is happening. No salary for them.

Whoever, owing allegiance to the United States, levies war against them or adheres to their enemies, giving them aid and comfort within the United States or elsewhere, is guilty of treason and shall suffer death, or shall be imprisoned not less than five years and fined under this title but not less than $10,000; and shall be incapable of holding any office under the United States.

(June 25, 1948, ch. 645, 62 Stat. 807; Pub. L. 103–322, title XXXIII, § 330016(2)(J), Sept. 13, 1994, 108 Stat. 2148.)

I submit, what both parties are doing, is an act of treason against the United States. At minimum, it is destroying our government.

What to do then? I would, the people should, US citizens should, vote on a referendum to combat this treason, as defined as “shutting down the government”.

(5) the term “domestic terrorism” means activities that—

(A) involve acts dangerous to human life that are a violation of the criminal laws of the United States or of any State;

(B) appear to be intended—

(i) to intimidate or coerce a civilian population;

(ii) to influence the policy of a government by intimidation or coercion; or

(iii) to affect the conduct of a government by mass destruction, assassination, or kidnapping; and

100. occur primarily within the territorial jurisdiction of the United States; and

https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/18/2331

Question: Is the civilian population intimidated? Yes

Question: Is the government shut down intended to influence the policy of a government by intimidation or coercion? Yes; it is treason against US.

I think the acts of Democrats and Republicans both constitute acts against US citizens and acts to influence or coerce out policies and the very foundations of our government. More than just federal employees are in danger of life and liberty.

What to do then? US citizens should propose a measure to ensure this does not happen again. If you engage in a government shut down, you need not be eligible to run for office ever again. What to do? Treat them like kids, all elected official. Sequester them all. Place them in a room until they work it out. No phones. No internet. No twitter. No Facebook. No TV. Just all of them in a room until they work it out. No going out to dinner. No ability to conduct your personal business. Since we cannot conduct our personal business due to the legislative idiots, then, they need not have the right to just go about as if nothing is happening. No salary for them.

Amend the constitution to include: Any elected official that engages in any act that results in the shut down of the United States government shall be guilty of treason against the United States, and/or as acting in such a manner to constitute War against the US [domestic war]. As otherwise specified, the penalties for war and treason against the US shall apply.

Cualquiera que, debido a su lealtad a los Estados Unidos, realice una guerra contra ellos o se adhiera a sus enemigos, brindándoles ayuda y consuelo dentro de los Estados Unidos o en cualquier otro lugar, es culpable de traición y sufrirá la muerte, o será encarcelado no menos de cinco años y multado bajo este título pero no menos de $ 10,000; y será incapaz de ocupar ningún cargo bajo los Estados Unidos.

(25 de junio de 1948, cap. 645, 62 Stat. 807; Pub. L. 103–322, título XXXIII, §330016 (2) (J), 13 de septiembre de 1994, 108 Stat. 2148.)

Presento, lo que ambas partes están haciendo, es un acto de traición contra los Estados Unidos. Como mínimo, está destruyendo nuestro gobierno.

Modifique la constitución para incluir: Cualquier funcionario electo que participe en cualquier acto que resulte en el cierre del gobierno de los Estados Unidos será culpable de traición contra los Estados Unidos y / o que actúe de tal manera para constituir una Guerra contra los Estados Unidos. [guerra doméstica]. Como se especifica de otro modo, se aplicarán las sanciones por guerra y traición a los Estados Unidos.

¿Qué hacer entonces? Yo, la gente debería, los ciudadanos estadounidenses deberían, votar sobre un referéndum para combatir esta traición, tal como se define como "cerrar el gobierno".

(5) el término “terrorismo doméstico” significa actividades que—

(A) involucre actos peligrosos para la vida humana que son una violación de las leyes penales de los Estados Unidos o de cualquier Estado;

(B) parecen tener la intención de

(i) intimidar o coaccionar a una población civil;

(ii) influir en la política de un gobierno mediante intimidación o coerción; o

(iii) afectar la conducta de un gobierno por destrucción masiva, asesinato o secuestro; y

(C) ocurren principalmente dentro de la jurisdicción territorial de los Estados Unidos; y

       https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/18/2331

Pregunta: ¿Se intimida a la población civil? Sí

Pregunta: ¿El cierre del gobierno tiene la intención de influir en la política de un gobierno por intimidación o coacción? Sí; es traición contra nosotros.

Creo que los actos de demócratas y republicanos constituyen actos contra ciudadanos de los Estados Unidos y actos para influir o coaccionar las políticas y los cimientos de nuestro gobierno. Más que los empleados federales están en peligro de vida y libertad.

¿Qué hacer entonces? Los ciudadanos estadounidenses deben proponer una medida para garantizar que esto no vuelva a suceder. Si participa en un cierre del gobierno, no necesita ser candidato para postularse para un cargo nunca más. ¿Qué hacer? Trátelos como niños, todos elegidos oficiales. Los secuestran a todos. Colóquelos en una habitación hasta que lo resuelvan. No hay teléfonos. Sin internet. No twitter. Sin Facebook. No v. Sólo todos ellos en una habitación hasta que lo resuelvan. No salir a cenar. No hay capacidad para llevar a cabo su negocio personal. Debido a que no podemos dirigir nuestro negocio personal debido a los idiotas legislativos, entonces, no necesitan tener el derecho de actuar como si nada estuviera sucediendo. No hay salario para ellos.

Cualquiera que, debido a su lealtad a los Estados Unidos, realice una guerra contra ellos o se adhiera a sus enemigos, brindándoles ayuda y consuelo dentro de los Estados Unidos o en cualquier otro lugar, es culpable de traición y sufrirá la muerte, o será encarcelado no menos de cinco años y multado bajo este título pero no menos de $ 10,000; y será incapaz de ocupar ningún cargo bajo los Estados Unidos.

(25 de junio de 1948, cap. 645, 62 Stat. 807; Pub. L. 103–322, título XXXIII, §330016 (2) (J), 13 de septiembre de 1994, 108 Stat. 2148.)

Presento, lo que ambas partes están haciendo, es un acto de traición contra los Estados Unidos. Como mínimo, está destruyendo nuestro gobierno.

Modifique la constitución para incluir: Cualquier funcionario electo que participe en cualquier acto que resulte en el cierre del gobierno de los Estados Unidos será culpable de traición contra los Estados Unidos y / o que actúe de tal manera para constituir una Guerra contra los Estados Unidos. [guerra doméstica]. Como se especifica de otro modo, se aplicarán las sanciones por guerra y traición a los Estados Unidos.

¿Qué hacer entonces? Yo, la gente debería, los ciudadanos estadounidenses deberían, votar sobre un referéndum para combatir esta traición, tal como se define como "cerrar el gobierno".

(5) el término “terrorismo doméstico” significa actividades que—

(A) involucre actos peligrosos para la vida humana que son una violación de las leyes penales de los Estados Unidos o de cualquier Estado;

(B) parecen tener la intención de

(i) intimidar o coaccionar a una población civil;

(ii) influir en la política de un gobierno mediante intimidación o coerción; o

(iii) afectar la conducta de un gobierno por destrucción masiva, asesinato o secuestro; y

(C) ocurren principalmente dentro de la jurisdicción territorial de los Estados Unidos; y

       https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/18/2331

Pregunta: ¿Se intimida a la población civil? Sí

Pregunta: ¿El cierre del gobierno tiene la intención de influir en la política de un gobierno por intimidación o coacción? Sí; es traición contra nosotros.

Creo que los actos de demócratas y republicanos constituyen actos contra ciudadanos de los Estados Unidos y actos para influir o coaccionar las políticas y los cimientos de nuestro gobierno. Más que los empleados federales están en peligro de vida y libertad.

¿Qué hacer entonces? Los ciudadanos estadounidenses deben proponer una medida para garantizar que esto no vuelva a suceder. Si participa en un cierre del gobierno, no necesita ser candidato para postularse para un cargo nunca más. ¿Qué hacer? Trátelos como niños, todos elegidos oficiales. Los secuestran a todos. Colóquelos en una habitación hasta que lo resuelvan. No hay teléfonos. Sin internet. No twitter. Sin Facebook. No v. Sólo todos ellos en una habitación hasta que lo resuelvan. No salir a cenar. No hay capacidad para llevar a cabo su negocio personal. Debido a que no podemos dirigir nuestro negocio personal debido a los idiotas legislativos, entonces, no necesitan tener el derecho de actuar como si nada estuviera sucediendo. No hay salario para ellos.

An Open Letter to Hephzibah Baptist Church of Wendell NC

Open Letter to Aaron Wallace, and Hephzibah Baptist Church

March 22, 2012, was the last time I needed to have a heated argument, the liking of the “meeting” you set up and planned yesterday.  As a survivor of domestic violence, I did not anticipate being in a meeting with a pastor of a church, and the church assistant pastor, and having to endure such traumatizing behavior.  Really.  

I am the father of two children; and one child is a teen.I raised one child, a step child, and the behaviors exhibited were those I would find in an immature teen and not in any inclination or capacity of a “Seasoned Pastor”.  

This reminded me of an additional traumatizing event, and that was when I was a foster care worker, and did a licensing visit to a foster home, and the foster parent was a religious zealot, and, was of high stature, height and weight wise, and stronger than me, and threatened that I must leave his home, under the duress of physical injury should I not leave; and the end result was his foster license was revoked because of threatens implied of direct and immediate physical violence.  

If you called me to have a conversation with you, then note, conversations are a two way communication.  A two way communication was not your intent.  A one way threatening and expression was the manifestation of your actions.  Really; you called me to meet with you so that you can scream at me, to me, and be disdainful, without any intent of letting me talk.  BE QUIET YOU SAID REPEATEDLY.  Those are the actions of an abusive person.  Those are not the typical actions of a seasoned pastor.  

And, regrettably, you called two others to “witness” your actions.  Wow, that was even more hypocritical.  Under the misguided auspices of doing your “pastoral duties”.  There is no pastor that I know of that would engage and conduct themselves as you did.  

Then, you had a second immature teen in the room that said “let us call her” and see what she thinks of pastor Aaron.  Really, dang, the level of immaturity, after he reread the post and even in reading realizing there were positives in the post.  

You are a very scary person Aaron.  You have changed sir, since initially meeting you in about 2005.  Wow.  

“If you were a member of this church, I would discipline you”, you said, with an unfathomable and unimaginable amount of pain and suffering was implied, alluded too, expressed, and interpreted by me thereto. What do you do to “erring members”?  Take them in a back room with “ministers” and “let them have it”?  

What has happened to you?  Dang.  If I were your assistant minister I would not have allowed you to schedule and/or attend that supposed “meeting”.  You should have prayed, cooled off, and then address the matter later, properly.  Letting you go forward in the matter you did also shows a failure on your support staff.  

Hephzibah cannot take the credit for the individual actions of members to “do the Lord’s work”, when the church is failing to take on its responsibility.  

Dissect what you said; the church when it cannot handle a member or the needs thereof, they refer them to other churches and programs.  That does not even make sense.  The church cannot handle a person with substance abuse issues and “other problems”; so, it is belittled and regulated to an information and referral service.  

You lied and I followed up with Wendell Baptist about the “referrals and support” for divorce care.  I talked with the leaders there and they blatantly stated not so, Hephzibah does not support us.

God sends sheep to you, and you send them away, and, that is called fulfilling the Lord’s work.  I think not sir.  If you continue to act in that manner, then you are a liability to the church.  

I am glad there was a youth and ministry leader that had the love of God and knowledge there or during the meeting.  It is unfortunate that person left early.  

I almost lost my daughter during middle school, and, your judgment with no knowledge directly of what happened is and was “look, he is crazy” [para-phased here}.  Testify only to what you know and seen sir, you look like and act like an idiot by rendering commentary on things you were not a part of, and that is “slander and l…….:” etc, Mr Junior Lawyer whom cannot read a post and dissect the meaning thereof.  

This is an open letter to the church because the church should perhaps consider some leave time for you.  You may be overly stressed, taking on too much, and not really know and/or are capable of evaluating your own actions. Hooligan versus pastor. I hope and pray for the best in and with you, but am truly injured and hurt by you.  

In Love and Prayer Hoping and Praying for the Best.  God Bles